Let go of what’s gone and hold on to what you have

“Love the ones you can. Touch the ones you can reach. Let the others go.”
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, Only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be, And that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it. If that person isnt worth it now, its not going to worth in a year or 10 years from now.
“Let go of what’s gone and hold on to what you have.”

Saw this on my friend Kristine’s facebook, and I just have to write about it.

I’ve spent basically the last decade dedicating my heart to someone, believing that one day, he will see and understand. But reality comes in, it doesn’t always work like in the movies. Things don’t always pan out the way you think it’ll be. Seems like all of my past relationships always ended up with me being heartbroken and alone, while the other party ended up either married, have kids, or happy with someone else. I swear I feel like Good Luck Chuck, where every girl he sleeps with gets hitched.

Now I’m involved in something that I don’t even know what I’m doing. This is brand new and scary to me. I’m not young any more, I don’t have much time to waste. As much as it hurts to be alone, I have to face the fact that this might be it for me. I’m not giving up, I’m just choosing me and what makes me happy and not being hurt, wondering all the time…